Each of us should be responsible for making ourselves better

Have you ever think of what is the meaning of life? You may not have time to think about it, especially when you are busy every day, and days pass without knowing it. When you calm down one day, you can't help but think about these questions, why are you busy every day, what are you busy with, what problems did you solve, or make yourself better?

I feel like I am lost and have no direction on some days, and sometimes I feel that I have a clear goal, but I don’t know how to go forward. Especially when there is nothing to do, and it feels meaningless to do anything. Many people may encounter this situation, but after a few days when the mood improves, they will return to the old way.

We should make some time for ourselves, sit down and think about the meaning of our life. Some people may think that this is a question that people will think about when they are depressed. We should learn to take the initiative to think about these issues. We don’t have to worry about wars, our three meals a day, or where even to live. What we have to think about is how we can live a better life, or make our family life better. We should be grateful that we can live in this beautiful era, and we should cherish this beautiful life even more. Why are other people living better and better but not me? It is our irresponsibility to ourselves and our irresponsibility to our family.

Just because we live in the best time, we don't know how to struggle, don't know how to work hard, As long as we have food and shelter every day, we forget our origins. Our ancestors used their lives and their youth to buy us a good time, but we eat and drink every day. We play games and watch TV shows with our mobile phones. Just forgetting to work hard and forget to learn and progress for a while is actually irresponsible to oneself.

We must learn to protect ourselves and learn to make ourselves stronger. This is our responsibility. We don't bully the weak, but we also don't allow others to bully us. What's wrong with us is that we lack fighting spirit, our ancestors survived such difficult times, but now we don't have the courage to stand up. The economy of others is getting better and better. It's time for us to wake up; we should at least be responsible for our own better lives.

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Learn to be down-to-earth when your ability can't support your dreams

Learn to be down-to-earth when your ability can't support your dreams

Don't always think about doing big things, just don't be greedy and set yourself too high a goal, a goal that is difficult to achieve. You can only do the small things in front of you down-to-earth. When you do the small things well and improve your ability, you will naturally be able to do big things well.

The reason is very simple, you are an ordinary office worker, if you are asked to be a leader and manager, obviously your ability is not up to it, and you will not be able to support a company or a single business. What you have to do is to do the things in front of you in a down-to-earth manner, improve your ability, and only when your quantitative accumulation reaches a certain level can there be a qualitative change.

Maybe some people will be unconvinced, and say that in the past, others can do business without knowing anything, and there are many people who are successful, but maybe you only see some people, and you may not see how many people went bankrupt.

Let's analyze the reasons first. First of all, the reform and opening up made business very easy, because there were very few people doing business. As long as you have the courage and ideas to do it, it is easy to make money. This is called an opportunity, but how many people can do it? Seeing and seizing opportunities, most of them can’t see them, and think they are speculative. People who can see opportunities have certain insights, which is what we often call cognition. If we put you at that time, you may not have such cognition, cognition is also a part of ability, when your ability is not enough, you will not see opportunities at all.

Another one is whether you can bear hardships and hard work, work hard to do it well, and persevere.

So we should not always feel that there is no opportunity. I believe that each of us will encounter good opportunities, but when you do not have the knowledge and ability, you cannot support the opportunities you encounter at all, and you will also miss the opportunities.

When the ability is not enough, when you can't see the opportunity, it means that your cognition is not enough, the ability is not strong enough. When your ability cognition reaches a certain level, you will find opportunities everywhere. 

As long as you work hard, learn, improve your cognition and enhance your ability, you will become someone else Be the object of envy and become what you want!

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People will never know how good they are unless they push themselves

People will never know how good they are unless they push themselves

Human potential is unlimited, and only by constantly stimulating our potential can we make ourselves better. 

How can I unleash my potential? 

Sometimes we have a feeling that the more powerful people we meet, the stronger we will become. In fact, this is invisibly forcing out one's own potential. People have a competitive mentality, no matter what they do, they will think of doing better than others. So if you want to make yourself stronger, you have to learn from people who are better than you. It's very simple. For example, when we study, we will play and study with people with similar grades. Those who study well can become friends with those who study well, and those who study poorly stay with those who study poorly. If good learners and poor learners are together, either the poor learners will be influenced to become good learners, or the good learners will be spoiled, and their academic performance will become worse and worse.

People who step into society are also with people who are similar to themselves. If you are poor, you will be with poor people every day, and rich people will also be with rich people. If one day you step into a circle that doesn't belong to you, you will feel very uncomfortable. Either you leave this circle, or you try to change yourself to fit into this circle.

Similarly, if you are with a group of unmotivated people every day, you will continue to hang out like them every day, but suddenly one day there will be a change and let you go to another circle, such as going to work or studying. You will find the gap between you and others. If you want to be like them, you will change and learn from them, become as good as they are. Of course, if you don't have the courage to change, and if you don't have the determination to persevere, you will leave this circle and find the same circle as you used to be in.

Only when you push yourself, you will know how good you are!

I saw a story like this a few days ago, and I don't remember the specific plot, but it probably means an old lady in her 70s, with no culture or expertise, her child failed to do business and owed more than 20 million debts. To make matters worse, the child died in an accident. As a result, all the debt collectors came to collect the debt. When they saw an old lady, they felt that there was no hope of collecting the debt, but the old lady said, don’t worry, I will pay back the debt my son owes you. As long as you trust me, I will find a way to return the money to you. She is a trustworthy person, and her son is also a trustworthy person. They will never break our promise. She really did payback the debt as promised.

Each of us has unlimited potential, and the story of the old lady inspires us even more. As long as you are willing to make changes and push yourself, you can do it too. Don’t always feel that you are inferior to others and be afraid of others. Force yourself to make changes, and believe that one day you will become better and better, and you will admire yourself.

Push yourself and you will become the best version of yourself! You will also be proud of your achievements!

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