This year, thank myself

Thank you for your persistence  

This year, I believe you have had many warm and happy moments, but also encountered some difficulties and ups and downs.

Maybe you've overcome the odds, or maybe you're still dealing with challenges, but thank you, you've kept going this year.

Thank you for the self who has always refused to admit defeat and never flinched, thank you for the self that has been accumulating strength and facing difficulties, and thank you for the self that is running with all its strength and getting more and more frustrated.

Say "Thank you" to yourself, and move on. Please believe that there will be a rainbow after the storm, and you will grow into a stronger self.

 

Thank you for knowing how to cherish yourself

This year, you, who are one year older, know more about cherishing.

Cherish your family, cherish your friends, cherish the present, and cherish every little happiness. Occasionally, when I feel tired, I feel very satisfied when I think that there is a place called home waiting for me behind me .

This year, you have learned not to leave your bad temper to your family, you have learned to prepare small surprises for your lover, and you have learned to accompany your children with more patience.

This year, thank you for knowing how to cherish. Please cherish this happy time, give them more warm support and companionship, and express your love and gratitude to them more.

 

Thank you for believing in love

This year, we went around and met, met, and got to know many people.

Some people are very lucky and finally met the person they like, and lived a sweet little life with the blessings of relatives and friends; Life; some people become a little anxious because the end of the year is approaching, but they are still determined to find happiness.

No matter what state you are in, remember to thank the self who has always "believed in love, expected love, and bravely loved".

Please believe: you are worthy of all the good things in the world, you will meet the most beautiful and suitable person, eat three meals and four seasons together, and enjoy joy and sweetness.

 

Thank you for not being perfect

This year, some plans may not be completed, but you don't have to blame yourself too much. In the long journey of life, it is inevitable that we will encounter some bottleneck periods. Facing setbacks is a crucial life lesson sometimes.

Gently say "it's okay" to yourself, and hug the imperfect self.

Don't be too frustrated when you encounter problems, don't care too much about other people's evaluations, take care of your own emotions, and think about your shining points. Give yourself a little more time and you will transform into a better version of yourself.

Don't be afraid that your life answer sheet is not full marks. A healthy and happy you is the perfect answer.

 

2023 is coming to an end. This year, you may have expressed your heartfelt thanks to many people, but don’t forget, you are the one who deserves the most thanks.

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Have you ever think of what is the meaning of life? You may not have time to think about it, especially when you are busy every day, and days pass without knowing it. When you calm down one day, you can't help but think about these questions, why are you busy every day, what are you busy with, what problems did you solve, or make yourself better?

I feel like I am lost and have no direction on some days, and sometimes I feel that I have a clear goal, but I don’t know how to go forward. Especially when there is nothing to do, and it feels meaningless to do anything. Many people may encounter this situation, but after a few days when the mood improves, they will return to the old way.

We should make some time for ourselves, sit down and think about the meaning of our life. Some people may think that this is a question that people will think about when they are depressed. We should learn to take the initiative to think about these issues. We don’t have to worry about wars, our three meals a day, or where even to live. What we have to think about is how we can live a better life, or make our family life better. We should be grateful that we can live in this beautiful era, and we should cherish this beautiful life even more. Why are other people living better and better but not me? It is our irresponsibility to ourselves and our irresponsibility to our family.

Just because we live in the best time, we don't know how to struggle, don't know how to work hard, As long as we have food and shelter every day, we forget our origins. Our ancestors used their lives and their youth to buy us a good time, but we eat and drink every day. We play games and watch TV shows with our mobile phones. Just forgetting to work hard and forget to learn and progress for a while is actually irresponsible to oneself.

We must learn to protect ourselves and learn to make ourselves stronger. This is our responsibility. We don't bully the weak, but we also don't allow others to bully us. What's wrong with us is that we lack fighting spirit, our ancestors survived such difficult times, but now we don't have the courage to stand up. The economy of others is getting better and better. It's time for us to wake up; we should at least be responsible for our own better lives.

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Don't always think about doing big things, just don't be greedy and set yourself too high a goal, a goal that is difficult to achieve. You can only do the small things in front of you down-to-earth. When you do the small things well and improve your ability, you will naturally be able to do big things well.

The reason is very simple, you are an ordinary office worker, if you are asked to be a leader and manager, obviously your ability is not up to it, and you will not be able to support a company or a single business. What you have to do is to do the things in front of you in a down-to-earth manner, improve your ability, and only when your quantitative accumulation reaches a certain level can there be a qualitative change.

Maybe some people will be unconvinced, and say that in the past, others can do business without knowing anything, and there are many people who are successful, but maybe you only see some people, and you may not see how many people went bankrupt.

Let's analyze the reasons first. First of all, the reform and opening up made business very easy, because there were very few people doing business. As long as you have the courage and ideas to do it, it is easy to make money. This is called an opportunity, but how many people can do it? Seeing and seizing opportunities, most of them can’t see them, and think they are speculative. People who can see opportunities have certain insights, which is what we often call cognition. If we put you at that time, you may not have such cognition, cognition is also a part of ability, when your ability is not enough, you will not see opportunities at all.

Another one is whether you can bear hardships and hard work, work hard to do it well, and persevere.

So we should not always feel that there is no opportunity. I believe that each of us will encounter good opportunities, but when you do not have the knowledge and ability, you cannot support the opportunities you encounter at all, and you will also miss the opportunities.

When the ability is not enough, when you can't see the opportunity, it means that your cognition is not enough, the ability is not strong enough. When your ability cognition reaches a certain level, you will find opportunities everywhere. 

As long as you work hard, learn, improve your cognition and enhance your ability, you will become someone else Be the object of envy and become what you want!

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