These 10 signs that you are getting better
1 Gradually getting savings
If you have read The Road to Financial Freedom, you will know
that the first rule of happiness is to save money.
Old people love to save money, but in our generation, somehow,
they have all become "negative" people. We borrow and overdraw for
the future, and then use our present efforts to pay back our past spending.
Good saving habits will give you a sense of security and also
give you more initiative in the world of "buying".
If you've graduated a few years ago and still don't have any
savings, be sure to take note, but don't worry, start saving now.
2 Be able to get up early and go to bed early on your own initiative
The key to this one is "initiative".
A psychiatrist friend of mine once told me that the best way to
treat depression is to give the patient a sense of control first.
I asked, "What is a sense of control?
He said, "It starts with taking the initiative to go to bed
early and get up early.
Actually, going to bed early and waking up early is not so great.
What is great is to take the initiative to go to bed early and wake up early
for ten years.
In other words, you are not woken up by work or your boss, you
want to go to bed early and get up early, you want to do something with your
time in the morning.
Of course, it's also pretty awesome that you have to go to bed
late and get up late on your own initiative for ten years as a whole.
3 Start accepting your imperfections
Everyone, in fact, has their own flaws.
But a person will focus more on his or her strengths and
strategically ignore his or her weaknesses, which has two benefits.
Firstly, one can be more confident.
Secondly, one can put better energy into one's strengths.
In fact, the older one gets, the less likely one is to accept
one's imperfections, but it is when one begins to accept one's imperfections
that one will move towards perfection.
In one's twenties, one has to come to terms with one's
imperfections.
In one's thirties, one accepts the imperfections of one's
parents.
In one's forties one has to come to terms with the imperfections
of one's children.
Imperfection is also a form of beauty.
4 Take the initiative to stop having friends with negative energy
The older you get, the more likely you are to see that negative
people are actually lurking around you.
Many may be friends and relatives who are usually particularly
close, but remember.
As you start to make the leap, you will find that you become
more and more out of step with your old surroundings, and that those people you
used to be very close to are instantly distant.
But don't worry, move on. Sometimes you don't have to cut off
those friends, they will cut you off.
It's not a big deal, you just need to move on, and the brave
will follow you on the road.
5 Start reading and exercising regularly
Apart from the dopamine production and the desire to learn, more
importantly, you start to realise that there is more to life than just the
little circle you were in.
A person who lies down all day will not know the kind of joy
that comes from being on a treadmill.
Similarly, those who don't love reading will never understand
how the world is seen by those who have knowledge in their brain.
6 Begin expressing yourself regularly
So, please start expressing and outputting regularly, for
example, writing articles, which, at first, may not be read by many people, but
as you write better and better and more, more people will read them.
7 Eat well at every meal
What is the most basic sign that a person is being alive?
The answer is to eat well at every meal.
You can take the initiative to choose some ingredients that will
ensure you have three meals a day, with less sugar, lesser carbs and more high
protein and vegetables.
The body is the carrier of the soul, when the body is finished,
it's too late for everything.
8 Gradually start to be grateful for the world
I have a friend who send thank you to his loved ones everyday.
People can become particularly uncaring and ungrateful, taking
everything for granted.
But once said, you feel the world is full of warmth, and really,
if one is even grateful for every day one is alive, the state of being will
change dramatically.
What's more, it's not just the person who is grateful that will
actually benefit, it will be themselves.
Some studies have shown that a grateful person has a higher
sense of well-being themselves than the person being thanked.
9 Understand the meaning of solitude
Solitude is the best period of appreciation, there will be a
point when you do not have the accompaniment of your large circle of friends
compared to now.
At the end of the day, people are meant to be alone. But there
is one characteristic of masters: they are used to being alone, they enjoy it
and they find a better version of themselves in it.
If you ask me what is the meaning of solitude, I think it is a
kind of dialogue with oneself.
10 Knowing how to let go and not to cling to it
The last one is the most important, because almost all suffering
comes from clinging to something or someone.
And as you begin to let go of that wrong person that you love so
much
Letting go of that painful experience that you cannot change
Letting go of the things you hated but couldn't let go of
Congratulations, you've come out of it.
I hope this helps.