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Sunday, December 31, 2023

To the person I care about the most

To my family

When I was young, I always felt that my parents were nagging and controlling too much; when I grew up, realized that only our parents are the ones who don’t ask for anything in return and desperately protect us. It is the love of my parents that makes me more firm on the way forward.

Dear parents, thank you for your careful upbringing and sheltering me from all worries. In the past, you were my biggest backer; in the future, I will be your best backer.

I want time to go slower, so that I can love you longer. It is my greatest wish that you are safe and sound ; my greatest peace of mind is that everything at home is safe. Remember to take good care of your body.

To my lover

In my opinion, the most beautiful thing in the world is meeting the right you at the right time.

Along the way, we have had quarrels, misunderstandings, frictions, but fortunately, we have not given up on each other. We have experienced many things together, and finally we can be more considerate, tolerant, understanding, and successful with each other.

Thank you for making me believe that the world is worth it. Please also believe that no matter what kind of wind and rain you experience, I will stand firmly by your side.

To my friend

I am very happy to have you all by my side. We used to chat and sing together, cried and laughed together, and experienced the beauty and freshness together. Thank you for allowing me to be my truest self unscrupulously.

Dear friend, thank you for appearing in my life, giving me warmth and joy; thank you for doing your best to help me when I encounter difficulties.

Because of our busy schedule, we don't have many chances to get together often, but I believe that no matter how far away we are, we can't stop thinking about it in our hearts; no matter how busy the day is, it won't dilute the friendship between you and me. In the years to come, may we keep in touch and walk together warmly.

To myself

You have cared about many people, but don't forget that you are the one who deserves to be loved.

In the face of difficulties, you know how to adjust your emotional state and live a more orderly life; in the face of failure, you are not discouraged and constantly update your cognition. thank myself, have experienced troughs and setbacks, but I treat the people around me more gently.

Dear self, thank you for all the kindness and beauty you bring to this world. Today, I also want to say to you: "You have worked hard!" From now on, don't forget to love yourself. There are infinite possibilities in the future, may your heart be full of hope, fearless and brave, go forward.

Friday, December 29, 2023

This year, thank myself

Thank you for your persistence

This year, I believe you have had many warm and happy moments, but also encountered some difficulties and ups and downs.

Maybe you've overcome the odds, or maybe you're still dealing with challenges, but thank you, you've kept going this year.

Thank you for the self who has always refused to admit defeat and never flinched, thank you for the self that has been accumulating strength and facing difficulties, and thank you for the self that is running with all its strength and getting more and more frustrated.

Say "Thank you" to yourself, and move on. Please believe that there will be a rainbow after the storm, and you will grow into a stronger self.

Thank you for knowing how to cherish yourself

This year, you, who are one year older, know more about cherishing.

Cherish your family, cherish your friends, cherish the present, and cherish every little happiness. Occasionally, when I feel tired, I feel very satisfied when I think that there is a place called home waiting for me behind me .

This year, you have learned not to leave your bad temper to your family, you have learned to prepare small surprises for your lover, and you have learned to accompany your children with more patience.

This year, thank you for knowing how to cherish. Please cherish this happy time, give them more warm support and companionship, and express your love and gratitude to them more.

Thank you for believing in love

This year, we went around and met, met, and got to know many people.

Some people are very lucky and finally met the person they like, and lived a sweet little life with the blessings of relatives and friends; Life; some people become a little anxious because the end of the year is approaching, but they are still determined to find happiness.

No matter what state you are in, remember to thank the self who has always "believed in love, expected love, and bravely loved".

Please believe: you are worthy of all the good things in the world, you will meet the most beautiful and suitable person, eat three meals and four seasons together, and enjoy joy and sweetness.

Thank you for not being perfect

This year, some plans may not be completed, but you don't have to blame yourself too much. In the long journey of life, it is inevitable that we will encounter some bottleneck periods. Facing setbacks is a crucial life lesson sometimes.

Gently say "it's okay" to yourself, and hug the imperfect self.

Don't be too frustrated when you encounter problems, don't care too much about other people's evaluations, take care of your own emotions, and think about your shining points. Give yourself a little more time and you will transform into a better version of yourself.

Don't be afraid that your life answer sheet is not full marks. A healthy and happy you is the perfect answer.

2023 is coming to an end. This year, you may have expressed your heartfelt thanks to many people, but don’t forget, you are the one who deserves the most thanks.

Friday, December 22, 2023

Each of us should be responsible for making ourselves better

Have you ever think of what is the meaning of life? You may not have time to think about it, especially when you are busy every day, and days pass without knowing it. When you calm down one day, you can't help but think about these questions, why are you busy every day, what are you busy with, what problems did you solve, or make yourself better?

I feel like I am lost and have no direction on some days, and sometimes I feel that I have a clear goal, but I don’t know how to go forward. Especially when there is nothing to do, and it feels meaningless to do anything. Many people may encounter this situation, but after a few days when the mood improves, they will return to the old way.

We should make some time for ourselves, sit down and think about the meaning of our life. Some people may think that this is a question that people will think about when they are depressed. We should learn to take the initiative to think about these issues. We don’t have to worry about wars, our three meals a day, or where even to live. What we have to think about is how we can live a better life, or make our family life better. We should be grateful that we can live in this beautiful era, and we should cherish this beautiful life even more. Why are other people living better and better but not me? It is our irresponsibility to ourselves and our irresponsibility to our family.

Just because we live in the best time, we don't know how to struggle, don't know how to work hard, As long as we have food and shelter every day, we forget our origins. Our ancestors used their lives and their youth to buy us a good time, but we eat and drink every day. We play games and watch TV shows with our mobile phones. Just forgetting to work hard and forget to learn and progress for a while is actually irresponsible to oneself.

We must learn to protect ourselves and learn to make ourselves stronger. This is our responsibility. We don't bully the weak, but we also don't allow others to bully us. What's wrong with us is that we lack fighting spirit, our ancestors survived such difficult times, but now we don't have the courage to stand up. The economy of others is getting better and better. It's time for us to wake up; we should at least be responsible for our own better lives.