If you don't like a person, you don't need to compete with him, and you don't need to waste your saliva for someone who is not worth it.
Don't affect your mood, be a "transparent person", hide yourself, stay away from him, and you will win.
Yes, in the world of adults, you have to digest your grievances by yourself. You don’t need to tell your story to everyone. Few people really understand you. Most people will only laugh at you from their own standpoint.
All you can do is tolerate and become stronger and stronger step by step. Jump out of the circle that you hate, and leave people who have different views from you.
We only have more than 30,000 days, and there are very few things that are really worth paying attention to. What you really care about is your relatives, friends, and other people's criticism or appreciation.
The rest of your life is expensive, don't waste time on people you hate, the best way for adults to end a relationship is not to quarrel and collapse, but to alienate silently.
What is the difference between the thinking of the poor and the rich?
【Chapter One】
The poor are overwhelmed by feelings, looks, and relationships, and rarely think about the underlying logic.
The capitalists say, “It’s only once in a lifetime.” The poor are so worried that they save half a year’s worth of money to hold a wedding of the century.
Capitalists say, "Women should pamper themselves." Poor people are tempted, they should eat and play, and buying a bag costs a month's salary,
The capitalists say, "Diamonds are forever, and one piece will last forever." The poor think it is too true, what sincerity is there without a diamond ring?
Sometimes I feel that the capitalist is really bad, he will say whatever you like to hear, in short, you will be full of joy when you clean up your bank account, and feel that you have not neglected yourself. Then the days pass year after year, and you have nothing left, only a room full of unused old products, a closet of discarded brand-name clothes, a few broken stones, and a piece of paper that has been repeatedly consumed by beauty salons until it is sensitive. Face.
【Chapter two】
[Change, starting from the way of thinking
1. Live fish will swim upstream, and dead fish will drift with the current.
2. When an event is considered an opportunity by everyone, it is no longer an opportunity.
3. Youth is capital, but it is worthless without hard work.
4. If you care about the people in front of you, you will lose the future.
5. President Roosevelt said: Be the master of time, the master of destiny, and the helmsman of the soul.
6. The rich make money from capital, and the poor get rich from knowledge.
7. It is unfortunate that others look down on you; it is even more unfortunate that you look down on yourself.
8. You can lose everything in the world, but you can't lose hope and confidence.
9. The wise create opportunities, the strong seize them, and the weak wait for them.
10. A person has two plots of land: one plot of land during the day is to fill his stomach, and one plot of land at night is to cultivate his own future.
11. Having nothing is a kind of wealth, which makes people take action to change their destiny.
12. People often use books to judge unknown things, and often take wrong inferences as correct conclusions.
13. What do the poor lack? On the surface, they lack funds, but in essence they lack ambition, ideas in their minds, courage in their bones, understanding of opportunities, actions for change, and perseverance in their careers.
14. The smartest person in the world borrows the experience of other people's bad head and blood as his own experience; the most stupid person in the world uses his own bad experience as experience.
15. Only by suffering what others can't bear, enduring the anger that others can't bear, and doing things that others can't do, can you enjoy everything that others can't enjoy.
【third chapter】
Workplace: Choice is more important than change
1. Don't start easily, don't change the track easily once you start.
2. Rolling stones do not gather moss, change careers
do not gather wealth, frequent switching is not recommended
So think twice before switching job every time.
3. If you really feel that the moment is not suitable, don’t stay for a second. The faster you leave the wrong place, the closer you will be to the right place.
4. Career planning is ultimately to be loyal to your heart, to your choice, to do what you like, and to work hard for it.
5. For unsuitable jobs, persuading yourself not to leave is more like persuading yourself to swallow your anger. And the work you love, persuading yourself to persevere, is to be strong for love.
6. Choose the right industry and the right position, and the whole person will devote himself to it. I asked a designer who worked on the plan all night, isn't he tired? He told me: This is my work. There are passion in the eyes.
7. Choosing a career is actually very simple: do what you can do, do what you like, and do what you are willing to work hard for.
8. Jobs said: Being overwhelmed by other
people's loud opinions drowns out your true inner voice. Your intuition
and heart know what you want to be.
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