1. Always keep 30% mysterious
Absolute honesty to others is absolute harm to yourself.
It is likened to the trailer for the movies, and when it is not well
done, it becomes boring.
As soon as you know someone, revealing yourself completely will make
people disdain to get closer to you, because you have nothing much to
understand.
When talking with ordinary people, only reveal 30%, when talking with
acquaintances, only 50%, when talking with family members, only 70%,
When you have your own secrets, it gives people more desire to
understand you.
2. Low-quality social interaction is not as good as high-quality
solitude.
When children quarrel, they will always say, "I will never be
friends with you again." Adults don't need to say it, they just don't keep
in touch.
3. Never aim for things beyond your means
Beautiful women are pleasing to
the eyes, and virtuous women are pleasing to the heart;
When you are not strong enough, you should be less greedy for women who
are too beautiful
Any person or event can bring you as much happiness as it will bring you
the same amount of pain.
4. Others can laugh at themselves, but you cannot follow along.
Communicate with people and know how to "report good news instead
of bad news"
When someone asks about our impression of others, if you can praise it,
don’t just say it’s okay, and if you can say it’s okay, don’t belittle it.
Same caring words, but if you word it differently, the meaning will be
different.
Be careful
Be careful on the road
Be careful of being hit by a car on the road
The third sentence is the truth, but often people don’t like to hear the
truth.
5. You don't have to stab people, but you must have thorns on your body.
Good people are rewarded, but nice people don't.
I can treat you to dinner for 1,000, or drink 2,000 of wine, but you
have to pay back the 100 you owe me. This is the rule.
No matter what your relationship is, whether it involves money, you must
make a clear distinction.
Economic ability is proportional to the right to speak at home
6. Don't be lazy
"Help me make a ppt?", "Send me one of this thing?"
These are not desirable.
One's results doesn't come out of thin air, it comes from time or money.
People who are unwilling to come out after calling twice, don't make an
appointment next time. The strong do not like to be in the company of the weak.
Sometimes some people don't seem to care about you at all. Don't be
complacent, but it's because you are not important at all.
7. When hesitating to eat or not, do not eat;
When hesitant to buy or not, do not buy;
When you are hesitant to do it, do it now!
“Actions” always have to keep up with “ideas”
If you want to do something, you must take action. Accidents may be one
step faster than tomorrow. Some regrets are irreparable for life.
If you want to go to a distant place, you have to find a way to feel it;
what you want to do, you can do it even if you are not ready.
8. Society is not that complicated, what is complicated is the human
heart
No matter what the outside world is like, what can affect you is
actually the few people around you.
There is no ability to change the world; at least you can choose who to walk with.
3 secrets men must understand:
1. When you get richer and richer, someone will naturally like you.
2. When you don't take your feelings seriously, your pain is much less.
3. What hurts you is not the unfeeling of the other party, but the persistence of your fantasies.
6 sentences to make you sober:
1. Stupid people do not have enough intelligence to know they are stupid.
This is really a helpless thing.
The speed at which you find yourself stupid = the speed at which you can make money in the future
2. When an era is over, but the people of that era is still alive. This is a cruel, but very common thing. Most people come from the past and live in modern times with the thoughts of ancient people.
3. Don't always feel that others look down on you. In fact, you worry too much, and others can't see you at all. Having no money and always wanting to talk about dignity is the modern version of the emperor's new clothes.
4. Why don't others reason with you?
First, he is much stronger than you, and it is enough to crush you
directly.
Second, you are too stupid to understand the truth.
Confidence is a double-edged sword. When you meet someone who is better than you, trusting him is more effective than trusting yourself.
5. Everyone is not born equal, you work very hard, and the final destination may not be as good as the starting line of others.
The world above the clouds cannot be seen by the naked eye, nor the darkness hidden under the sun. The cheapest thing in this world is that you are poor and you always want to be a good person.
6. Life is like this. There are always countless people watching you live, but there are always very few people who help you.
Don't try to make real friends when you're not strong enough.
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