10 Advices for Life

1. Learning ability

Keep learning. After the age of 30, people's desire and energy for learning will plummet like a roller coaster, so the best time to study is now. When you enter the society, you will rediscover the meaning of learning: you need to deal with people, so learn the art of communication; you need to work in the media, so you learn media operations; you work in an office, so you learn to write articles and learn photography; keep yourself in a state of "charging" all the time.

 

2. Social Power

Build effective networking. The rich have a wider social circle than the poor, and unlike our usual belief, such a social circle is not waiting for you to "get rich" "It only started to build after that, but it is constantly enriched in the process. Start learning to expand new social circles through work relationships and existing social channels.

 

3. Health Power

Live a healthy life. All physical functions of a person will reach their peak in their 20s, and then start to decline. If you don't pay attention, wait until 5 years have passed. Even if you have achieved work results, you will be half bald at that time. , Potbellied, having sallow complexion, gastrointestinal disorders... After the age of 30, there are more opportunities to face, and there are still so many years in the future, what are you going to do? When you establish a set of regular habits from work and rest to diet and exercise, you can spend the least amount of energy and get the best health.

 

4. Economic power

Learn financial management from scratch. The meaning of learning financial management is not to let you invest, but to establish the concept of financial "income and expenditure". The biggest problem of many people is not that they earn less or spend more, but they don’t know how the money they earn is spent. Start by keeping a monthly income and expenditure record to see how much money you earn and how much you spend. Remember, the best way to manage money for all people is to save.

 

5. Affectionate

Take care of your parents now. Many young people who work hard outside often have such a mentality: I don't have time to take care of my parents now, but when I develop, I will make up for it. In fact, after the age of 30, your parents will truly enter old age, facing a series of problems such as health and retirement, and some of them will leave you early or "forget" before you even get "developed". you". If a person is working hard in the city, he should always call them, learn to understand their worries, ramblings, and dullness, take out part of your income to buy insurance for their parents, ask them to have a medical examination every year, and occasionally bring them out. Go out for walks, climbing the mountains and looking at the sea while they could still move. Your parents will always be your strongest backing in your struggles outside.

 

6. Emotional power

Learn to deal with emotions. This is also a problem that plagues many people, especially some negative emotions, such as irritability, depression, sadness, jealousy, etc., will greatly affect a person's behavior and choices. If you want not to be a slave to your emotions, you must start paying attention to your emotions in your 20s, learn how to regulate negative emotions, how to intentionally create positive emotions, and keep yourself in a healthy and positive mood.

 

7. Execution

Eliminate procrastination. The essence of procrastination is confrontation.. There are many ways to combat procrastination, but the one that works the most for me is to establish and break down goals. You only have to set yourself a plan like "achieve certificate in your profession" ", and in a few months to start preparing to review and prepare for the exam” and so on. Setting yourself a goal and breaking it down will keep you from escaping because there is a "deadline" everywhere.

 

8. Interest

Stick to a few long-term interests. We all have many interests and hobbies when we are young, but not all of them can last for a long time, especially after working. Imagine the boring life with no hobbies at all. After a day of busy work, go singing and playing with friends, or completely immersed in another activity that attracts your full attention, is actually the most helpful to relieve work fatigue. More importantly, some persistent interests, under certain conditions, may accidentally become a sideline that changes your destiny.

 

9. Image

Reshape your personal image. From the age of 25 to 30, this may be your last chance to change your image, because at this time you begin to have some financial strength and can change your personal image in all aspects from clothing, skin care, makeup, hairstyle, etc. according to your needs. You should also pay more attention to your external image in these 5 years.

 

10. Innovation

Learn to let go and forget. This is a very important ability for people in their 20s. Life is likened to travelling. When you have too many things on you, you can't continue to travel light. Some things are to be given up and forgotten. For example, when you were young, the relationship that turned sour, the friendship that parted ways or the difficulty to get through college, the embarrassment when you failed a course... These you once thought would affect your life it’s actually not as important as you think, you should forget it. There are more important things waiting for you to do. If you don’t empty the memories of the past, you can’t begin a new story.

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