People will never know how good they are unless they push themselves

Human potential is unlimited, and only by constantly stimulating our potential can we make ourselves better. 

How can I unleash my potential? 

Sometimes we have a feeling that the more powerful people we meet, the stronger we will become. In fact, this is invisibly forcing out one's own potential. People have a competitive mentality, no matter what they do, they will think of doing better than others. So if you want to make yourself stronger, you have to learn from people who are better than you. It's very simple. For example, when we study, we will play and study with people with similar grades. Those who study well can become friends with those who study well, and those who study poorly stay with those who study poorly. If good learners and poor learners are together, either the poor learners will be influenced to become good learners, or the good learners will be spoiled, and their academic performance will become worse and worse.

People who step into society are also with people who are similar to themselves. If you are poor, you will be with poor people every day, and rich people will also be with rich people. If one day you step into a circle that doesn't belong to you, you will feel very uncomfortable. Either you leave this circle, or you try to change yourself to fit into this circle.

Similarly, if you are with a group of unmotivated people every day, you will continue to hang out like them every day, but suddenly one day there will be a change and let you go to another circle, such as going to work or studying. You will find the gap between you and others. If you want to be like them, you will change and learn from them, become as good as they are. Of course, if you don't have the courage to change, and if you don't have the determination to persevere, you will leave this circle and find the same circle as you used to be in.

Only when you push yourself, you will know how good you are!

I saw a story like this a few days ago, and I don't remember the specific plot, but it probably means an old lady in her 70s, with no culture or expertise, her child failed to do business and owed more than 20 million debts. To make matters worse, the child died in an accident. As a result, all the debt collectors came to collect the debt. When they saw an old lady, they felt that there was no hope of collecting the debt, but the old lady said, don’t worry, I will pay back the debt my son owes you. As long as you trust me, I will find a way to return the money to you. She is a trustworthy person, and her son is also a trustworthy person. They will never break our promise. She really did payback the debt as promised.

Each of us has unlimited potential, and the story of the old lady inspires us even more. As long as you are willing to make changes and push yourself, you can do it too. Don’t always feel that you are inferior to others and be afraid of others. Force yourself to make changes, and believe that one day you will become better and better, and you will admire yourself.

Push yourself and you will become the best version of yourself! You will also be proud of your achievements!

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You must work hard and persevere silently until you have achieved results

You must work hard and persevere silently until you have achieved results

Before you produce any good grades, you must study, improve your abilities, and strengthen your skills. Everyone must work hard before they succeed. If you don't work hard, you will never get the affirmation and respect of others.

Others can just say that your work is wrong, and you have no ability to argue with others. But if you work hard to change silently, when you achieve certain results, even if what you say is wrong, others will think that what you said is right. Only when your professional level improves and your ability is affirmed by others, others will respect you and think you are a master. If you have no ability, everyone will look down on you, and you will not listen to what you say, and others will not listen to you, even if what you say is right, they will not listen to you. 

Achievements are the only reason to convince others. Only if you see your own problems, you can change to improve your abilities and make yourself stronger. It's a very simple truth. A successful person is surrounded by many people. Everyone will obey what he says and does. Even old people respect him. Similarly, when you have no grades or abilities, no one will take you seriously.

 

Before you have achieved results, don't tell others about your ability and strength, because if you have no ability, you have no achievements, and you simply don't have the ability to support you to argue with others, even if you are right. So before you have no achievement, only by doing things silently and doing things well, can you be affirmed and respected by others, and what you say has weight.

 

As a boss or as a leader or as a technical worker, you must have achievements in your profession and be able to do things well. If you can only talk, but has no actual action or ability, others will not obey you. Even if you are the leader, others will look down on you. Because they think that you don't have the ability but to rely on others to help you do it, and others will always respect the strong. Ordinary people like us work very hard and work very hard every day, but we have no achievement and no expertise. Only when you stand out and surpass others and are more professional than others, will you become the envy of others.

 

Maybe many people think that they are very capable but this is a wrong perception. Others don’t look at how strong you are but how much you have achieved. It is only when you have real materials and achievements, others will recognize you.

 

When you haven’t reached a certain height, don’t talk about your ideals with others, or talk about your own ideas. If you talk about it, others will only think it’s a joke. When you are incapable, you must learn to bow your head to study, improve yourself, and don't argue with others about right and wrong.

 

Learn to bow your head to study hard, improve yourself silently, don't be afraid of hard work, as long as you are willing to persevere, then one day you will amaze everyone!

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Be aware of your own weaknesses and strengths

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Each of us must learn to look at our own shortcomings and strengths correctly. Everyone will have strengths and weaknesses, but we must look at our own strengths and weaknesses rationally from a correct perspective. Only by facing up to your own superiority can you change yourself and make yourself better.

If a person has shortcomings, if others point it out to you, you must learn to change. Many people are often unable to face up to their own shortcomings because they can't let go of their so-called face. If they compare their shortcomings with other people's advantages, of course they will lose.

A clumsy bird will always be last and be laughed at by other birds. Winter is coming, and all the birds are flying south. It thought that although it was clumsy, it could fly to the south first, so that it would never be ridiculed by others, and it didn't want to be the last one.

When it was ready, it flew to the south by itself, but it couldn't remember the direction to go to the south, and soon lost its way, so it had no choice but to fly back. When it returned, it found that other birds were gone.

It had no choice but to continue flying to the south alone, and lost its way while flying. It didn't know what to do. Eventually winter came, it was frozen to death on the road.

It is not that the path of the clumsy bird flying first is suitable for everyone. Just like this bird, you must first look at the problem from a rational perspective and see your own shortcomings. When you are not able to change yourself, you must learn to let go and learn, ask others for advice. This little bird did not correctly analyze its ability because of its own ‘face’. When your ability cannot support your face, you must learn to let go of the so-called ‘face’ and learn. Only by being able to endure the ridicule of others and being able to bend and stretch can one become stronger.

There are many such stories in life. We see that many people always like to compare themselves with others. When others use their mobile phones well, they must have one. When others wear branded clothes, they must own one. When others drive cars, they must have one. They always feel that face is very important, but you have to see if you have the ability to compare with others. Others are rich people. Of course, you can choose what you like to buy.

We are just ordinary people, face is not that important.

We also have to learn to play to our strengths and change our own weaknesses, we cannot change some shortcomings, so we have to make up for them and cover them up with our strengths. For example, if we are stupid, we need to learn more. We can practice ten times or eight times what others know at one time. Not all successful people are smart people, and stupid people will become excellent through hard work. The premise is that if you want to see your own shortcomings, you must learn to work harder than others.

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