Each of us will have our own personality, our own temper, emotions. These good personal habits can make a person mature and become better. If you can't control your emotions well, it's easy to do wrong things and let yourself be negatively affected.
Since childhood, we have all been scolded and
praised by adults. If you do something wrong and are blamed by adults, you
will be unhappy and uncomfortable. Similarly, when you are praised, you
will be happy, encouraged, and more willing to do things well. Children
are innocent, and they will express their feelings. Each of
us lives in a different environment, and the impact will be
different. Adults will also be affected as long as they are together for a
long time. If we are with people who are very positive and optimistic for
a long time and will encourage you in everything, then you will do better
and better. If you are with a group of people with long-term negative emotions,
you will always complain and complain when you encounter problems. If you
lose your temper and blame others, you will also be affected, and you
will gradually become resentful and self-defeating. A positive and
optimistic person is like the sun, which will radiate its heat to shine on
others wherever it goes. A negative person is like the moon, which will
make it dark and gloomy wherever it goes.
What kind of teacher will teach what kind of
students, just like our parents and teachers were the most impactful when
we were young. We spend the most time with our parents, so we are most
influenced by them. Parents are our best teachers. There are many
things that we cannot change. For example, our parents are something we
cannot choose, and it is inevitable to be influenced by them since
childhood. Many of our parents will have negative emotions that affect us,
such as bad temper, blaming others for problems, shirking responsibility,
and so on. Or we were scolded by our parents, Sometimes I can't control my
emotions and quarrel with them. But you will regret it
afterwards. Although their method is problematic, it is also for our own
good. When we quarrel with them, not only can't solve the problem, but it
will increase the family conflict.
We will also encounter many unsatisfactory
things in society, being blamed by others, having disagreements with
others, being wronged by others, and being criticized by leaders. Each of
us will encounter these problems, but how can we deal with them better? Quarrelling or fighting and quitting will not solve the problem at
all, but will make it more serious.
We must learn to accept different opinions from
others, learn to control our emotions, and learn to accept with
humility when others say that you are not good. Even if you are right and
others are wrong, don't argue with others too much, because this is
fundamental It can't solve the problem, but it will affect your emotions
and affect your judgment on things. When we sometimes make mistakes, they
are caused by losing control of our emotions, being emotional, and losing
rational judgment.
Some things are originally small
things, but because of irrational and emotional loss of control, they will
lead to big mistakes. For example, when two people bump into each other
accidentally, everyone feels that they are not at fault, and one person is
emotionally abusive and unreasonable, which will arouse the emotions of
the other person, who may become more and more emotional and lose their
minds and fight , At this time, one may lose emotional control and if no one
persuades him, it may lead to a big mistake. If we can control our emotions
and admit a mistake to others, even if it is not your fault, others will
not hold on to it. Even if the other party is unreasonable and scolds you a few
times, you ignore him, Things are over. .
We often watch some games, TV dramas, live
broadcasts and so on, and we will find that those who don't know how to
control their emotions are easy to make mistakes. I have seen some live
broadcasts. Some people say that they can't stand arguing with others after a
few words. Some people who can control
their emotions, they just ignore them, and some people will laugh it off
when they are scolded, and it will pass. The same thing is handled in
different ways, and the results obtained are completely different.
Learning to control your emotions and manage
your psychological changes will allow you to better judge the right and
wrong of things and deal with problems better. Don't let your emotions
control you; it will do you no good but bad. Problems that could have been
easily dealt with can easily complicate the problem if you can't control your
emotions. It is a science to manage your emotions well, and it allows you
to improve and deal with problems better.
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