1. If one goes to other people's homes, and when the hosts suggest to drink tea or watch TV, it is time to say goodbye. People always remind others to do something trivial when they feel that they have nothing to say or do.
2. When one is reporting to their bosses, the boss is not
looking at you and tapping his/her fingers on the table mean he/she is not satisfied
with the report. But if he/she is initially shaking his/her legs under the
table when you enter; while you were talking, his feet suddenly stopped
shaking, then he has developed a keen interest in your words.
3. When talking to a new acquaintance, his/her arms are always
folded, which shows that he/she is still defensive against you, so it is best
to be cautious.
4. At the social gathering, beware of the person who toasts
to you frequently. It is either he/she needs your help or he/she is hostile to
you.
5. A person who is always boasting is just the opposite of
his boastful appearance. He is an extremely inferior person. He only used it to
cover up his inner inferiority complex.
6. When clinking glasses with others at a social event, your
own glass must be lower than that of the other party, especially if the other
party is an elder or leader.
7. If you ask someone a question and they didn’t answer you,
stop asking.
8. When someone criticizes you, even if he is wrong, don't
refute it first, wait for everyone to calm down before explaining.
9. You will meet all kinds of people in life. You can't be pleasing
everyone, but one thing is universal: how you treat others, it will be
reciprocal.
10. To survive in this world, one must first learn the word
"endure".
11. Don't tell your secrets to everyone.
12. Do not gossip about work with colleagues. Your
unintentional remarks may become evidence for others attack you.
13. There are real friends, but don’t know if you are lucky
enough to meet them. Regardless of whether you have encountered it or not,
don't backstab anyone.
14. When loaning money to others, you must factor in the
worst scenario, thinking you won’t get the money back. Therefore, the loaned
money must always be within the range that you can bear.
15. Among best friends, unless they are poor and got no
means to have their meals, its best not to have monetary contacts. Many
valuable friendships fail because of money.
16. It is for you to adapt to society, not society to adapt
to you.
17. Don't let others know what you really think, laugh in
front of others, hide and cry alone.
18. Simple things are complicated to do, and complicated
things are simple to do. Be responsible for your actions, don't blame others,
think about whether you should do it before you do it, and learn to solve it
yourself when something goes wrong.
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Indeed, words of wisdom here. Thanks for sharing!
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