The sooner you understand these 10 insights, the better, you can take the road less traveled

A while ago, there was a topic that was pushed to the top of the search: why are the young people of today "decadent", "lying flat", and "lousy"?

Netizens have been talking about it, and the one with the most likes is the following one.

The reason why young people today are so unmotivated is because they lack one thing, and that is: hope.

The sooner you understand these 10 insights, the better, you can take the road less traveled.

When you can't afford to buy a house even after a lifetime of hard work; when you can't save any money even after working overtime every day; when you can't get a decent job even after 10 years of hard study; when you are full of ambition and dreams, but you can't beat the word "money"; when you have been beaten by society, young people have already put The young people who have been beaten by society have already lost all their "hope" and "faith" and are left with nothing but helplessness and bitterness.

No one's dream is to buy a house when they grow up. Everyone wants to experience all kinds of life in their limited life, but the reality is: every day is from 9 to 6, constantly working overtime, with no time to exercise, cook for yourself, travel, discover interests, socialise and fall in love. ......

When you get home from work at night, you wash up, fall asleep, and then wake up the next day for another round of work, and so on and so forth, until your youthful years are exhausted. ......

The actual fact is that you can find a lot of friends and a wide range of contacts, but there are only a few friends you can talk to.

They are all ordinary people, but they live a miserable life where their words don't mean what they say and they can't help themselves.

After reading them, I can only say: it's so true; it's like being sober on earth.

So, today, I share with you 10 perceptions about growing up, and I hope you will see this article early and read it.

1, if you have an ordinary family, average ability, connections, mediocre looks, average IQ, nothing special, the fastest way to make a comeback is: choose an industry you like, first rooted in it for three to five years, and try to improve your ability, accumulate your experience, expand your network, expand your horizons, form your own unique thinking, and build your own industry resource base.

After three to five years, if your capital, network, ability and timing are ripe, you can try to start your own business first. Remember: it is not advisable to expand your business blindly in the early stages, you should walk on thin ice, be cautious, slowly feel your way across the river, one step at a time, and do not rush into anything.

Self-employment is not an easy thing, and the chances of success are few and far between, so think twice and twice again.

2, no matter what you encounter, do not be impulsive. A lot of things, often because of a moment of impulsiveness, only to end up in a big disaster. Also, when you are angry, it is best to keep your mouth shut, otherwise it will bring you a lot of unnecessary trouble.

3. Whenever you meet people, you should not reveal your privacy, character or weaknesses to others (especially strangers) because you do not know what kind of people you will meet, and a word you say without thinking can often become a handle for others to threaten you.

Therefore, no matter what the occasion is, we should not put our emotions on our faces, always keep smiling and stay positive. This way, you are more likely to be favoured by the opposite sex, trusted by elders, and relied upon by leaders.

Some people say it's hypocritical to do so! But I just want to ask: in this world of deceit, if you are not hypocritical, can you still survive? Look at them, those who are honest and sincere, aren't they always being bullied?

4. Always remember this: Get out of poverty first, then get out of singleness!

When you have money, and the other party has no feelings for you, it does not matter, the other party is willing to cultivate with you properly; when you have no money, even if the other party has feelings for you, sorry, the other party is not willing to suffer with you.

Love is always built on material basis, especially this materialistic era, without material protection, any mutual love is empty talk.

5, excessive modesty, equivalent to hypocrisy; excessive forbearance, equivalent to incompetence; excessive initiative, equivalent to licking the dog.

The person, can be a little humble, after all, modesty makes people progress, but if modesty is too much, it will make people feel very hypocritical.

The actual fact is that you can be a little bit more tolerant, but some people, some things, once you give in, you will get the other side of the inch.

The boy chased the girl, can take the initiative a little, after all, the initiative to have a story. If you've got a lot of initiative, you'll get a lot of perfunctory responses from the other side, so you should stop. It is very humble to be a licking dog, and in the end there is nothing

6, you can remain optimistic and upbeat, but also to recognize the reality, back to self.

A person who has not replied to you for more than 24 hours is politely rejecting you; remember the saying: no one will be so busy that they can't see your message all day, some just see and don't want to reply.

No girl likes a "dog licker". What they like is: they want money, they are handsome, they are talented, and they have a background. So, as long as you don't have money, even if you take care of her and do everything, she won't like you.

Instead of fantasizing about someone taking you flying, it is wise to spend your time on fitness, reading, working, improving yourself, investing in yourself, and keeping yourself refined.

7, rather learn from the turtle, hold your breath and take a step back; not learn from the hedgehog, covered with thorns, the export of hurt.

First of all, we have to understand one thing: no matter what people are, they like to hear good words, no one likes to hear the truth or bad words.

Therefore, when our strength does not allow us to do so, we might as well learn from the tortoise, and endure things as long as we can; although it looks cowardly and unambitious, it can ensure that we are unharmed and achieve the goal of obscene development.

On the contrary, if you go and learn from the hedgehog, covered in thorns and offending people as soon as you speak, you will sooner or later be ostracised. Those who are sharp may seem to have the upper hand, but in fact they make enemies everywhere and will not be able to go far in the end.

It is a very simple truth: no matter what the occasion, the leader will never promote a person who is in opposition to him every day. The "ass-kissing" in the workplace may seem very humble and cheap, but in fact, it is the most effective way for an ordinary person to get a promotion and a raise.

8, from now on, and make money from things that have nothing to do with, can do less, cannot do, do not do.

Each of us is given the mission of making money when we are born. What is the purpose of ten years of hard study? To make money, of course! Therefore, in a limited life, making money is the most important thing, and the rest is just an accompaniment.

Foolish people are always fond of vanity. Very often, for the sake of a banner, an award, a certificate of honour, or a false ranking in a game, they are willing to become someone else's pawn and go to the edge of the sword or the edge of the fire for others.

Cao Cao once said, "Do not be greedy for false fame but deal with real misfortune". The meaning is: Do not covet false fame and invite real misfortune.

Therefore, in real life, we should be wary of these illusory honours. For example, in the workplace, the top performer receives a certificate of honour; in a game, the first place in a battle is awarded a title of honour; in a certain competition, spending a few thousand dollars to enter, one receives a trophy of honour. These are false rewards, hungry cannot be eaten as a meal, and cold cannot be worn as clothes, and in the end can only be thrown into the trash!

9, no matter what the occasion, do not speak too bluntly; see through and not say through, is also a kind of cultivation.

Although words are not as sharp as a knife blade, they are more hurtful than a knife blade. Very often, when you tell the truth and correct a mistake, the other person is not only ungrateful, but also angry.

That's the wonderful thing about human nature. When you expose a person's lies, they don't admit their mistakes because it makes them lose face. So he will think that you are against him and will argue with you to the death.

Therefore, learn to "see people say people say, see ghosts say ghosts", often can avoid a lot of trouble.

10, appropriate pretend to be confused, more to win the recognition and appreciation of others; if everywhere are too calculating, will be disliked.

Many times, pretending to be confused is also a kind of high emotional intelligence performance. Especially in the workplace, people who know how to play dumb are more likely to win the promotion and respect of their leaders. On the contrary, if you always think you are very capable, and everywhere to steal the limelight, and will be jealous of many people, and even hate.

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