Are you lost in life?

When a person has no goal and direction, or experiences some failures, he will become more and more confused and demoralized!

There may be times when we have no goals, don’t know what we want, what we can do, or experience some setbacks, being questioned and distrusted by others, making ourselves confused and at a loss! When life is at its lowest point, don't be impatient, rush for success or give up yourself! The more difficult it is, the more you have to calm down, slow down, find out your own shortcomings and improves yourself! If you really don't know what to do, sit down and read. Reading not only allows you to learn more, but also allows you to calm down and face difficulties calmly and change your irritable mood!

Books are actually the best teachers for each of us, and the guiding light for us to move forward. Each of us has started reading since childhood, but very few people really understand it. Why? Because there are not many people who really study hard, only a few people change their destiny through reading, and most people feel that they are not suitable for reading, they are not interested, and they cannot learn it by themselves. This is just an excuse for most of us that’s all, or they gave up before they found their hobby. Of course, reading does not refer to the knowledge in books. When we step into the working world, each of us has to survive. In order to live, we have learned a lot about what we don’t like, what we don’t want, and what we don’t like. , what we hate has finally become our ability to survive! However, these are all forced to do it. Just imagine how many of us are really willing to pick up books and learn by ourselves, maybe very few. Just like when we go to school, how many people like it from the bottom of their hearts and have a clear goal to read, and more people just read for the sake of reading.

Each of us has different ideas, different goals, different hobbies, different positions, and the results of what we do are naturally different. When you are a factory worker, you just need to finish your work and get the money you deserve every month. When you are a farmer, you only need to plant the seeds on time and plant the crops well every year. When you're a boss think about buying more stuff every day to make more money. When you are a manager, you think about how to improve the work efficiency of employees and complete tasks on time every day. The same job, the same environment, some people are getting better and better, and some people are still doing it for a lifetime.

The most important thing for each of us is to understand ourselves first, do you want to live a life of misery, or do you want to make some achievements? Do you want to live a normal life or live a noble life like others! If you want to live poorly, then you don't need to waste these hours thinking about living a good life, and don't envy other people's lives. Live your life down-to-earth, and don't complain about the injustice. If you want to change yourself, you must put in practical actions, don’t be afraid of hardships and fatigue, the effort and the gain are always proportional! If you are thinking every day, but not taking action, it is better to live a normal life and waste so much time! Even if you have a small goal, as long as you take action, then you are halfway there. If you are just pretending, then you are just deceiving yourself and deceiving your life. 

Some people work steadily, but there is no substantial change, then you have to think carefully about whether your thinking is wrong, or your approach is wrong! Still not trying hard enough! Or force yourself to do something that you are not interested in at all! If you're in the wrong direction, you'll never reach your destination!​​​

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Learn to deal with crises early, and employers prefer to employ younger people nowadays. For example, after the age of thirty-five, it is difficult for people to find jobs, let alone those without skills.

Most people will not realize it and when they really reach that age, they realize that it is too late. Some people may have heard of it way before, but they feel that it has nothing to do with them. When that day comes, if you don’t have any experience with a stable job, you will need to accept jobs of lower pay. If you look at the employment websites, you will realize that many companies do not want to consider employing people over the age of 35.It is not because they are not skilled and unfamiliar with the business, but because they feel that they are getting older, they do not have the vitality, passion, or hard work of young people. With so many young people out of work now, how can it be their turn? Those over 40 years old will have more difficulty to find a job. They can only do things that young people are unwilling to do, such as security guards, doormen, sanitation workers, and coolies on and off the construction site. There's really nothing left to choose from.

When you are young, you should work harder and think about your future. When you are in your 30s or 40s, a person's burden is the heaviest. There are elders and kids to take care of. If the other half does not have a stable job, and the burden is all on you, if you have no job and no income at this time. Then you can imagine how tough your life will be.

When you are young, it is time to lay a good foundation for yourself and not waste a lot of time sleeping, playing, enjoying. Although you enjoy it when you are young, what follows is the real beginning of your misery. So we should learn as soon as possible, to work hard, to struggle. When you reach a certain age, you want to work hard and struggle, but you find that you have no time or opportunity to do that, because you have to earn money to support your family, you can live frugally, but how do you support your family? . We all make mistakes when we are young, but probably not many people really realize they are wrong. Some people say that we don't even know we made mistakes, so how can we correct and change ourselves?

The first thing to do is to learn to study, to read, and to improve one's own cognition. Now people's living standards have improved, and young people are not like people in their teens and twenties who have to take up family responsibilities when they start a family and start a business.

Today's people always feel that they are under a lot of pressure with heavy burden, but if you look at each generation, which generation is not under much pressure. Don't always use such reasons as an excuse , If you don't believe it, go home and chat with your parents, chat with your grandparents, and see how they lived at that time. If you don't cherish it now, don't work hard, the days of suffering and tiring are waiting for you later!

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Each of our lives is a live broadcast, with no replays, no pauses, and no way to start all over again. So we must learn to wake up early. Each of us is not a god, and we make mistakes. But we must keep ourselves awake and realize our mistakes as soon as possible.

A person's life is incomplete without making mistakes. So don't grieve over your mistakes, but get out of the wrong path and get back on the right track as soon as possible. It is difficult for many people to realize their mistakes. When the mistakes have a certain level of impact, they will wake up. A petty thief may feel that he will be fine if he steals something from someone else if he is not found out. Slowly, he will always take a fluke. When he is caught one day, he will realize that he is doing something wrong, when the greed gets out of control, he may never have the chance to look back! It's not that he don't know he has made a mistake, it's that his greed has taken over his mind.

As everyone makes mistakes in work, life, love, family and so on, we have to learn to find mistakes and get out of them as soon as possible.

Some people can realize their mistakes, but it is difficult to correct them. This is because they have not realized the seriousness of the problem. For example, if you usually smoke, you know that it is harmful to the body, but it is difficult to quit. But if it seriously threatens your life, most people will quit, and smoking will be negligible relative to physical health.

If a person is not serious at work, he will realize that he should have worked hard in his younger days when he has kids as well elders to take care of. As long as you can realize your own problems, and you are willing to change and correct your mistakes, you will have less detours in life.

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