To the struggling you

 

There are good and bad days. When you are in pain, please heal the wound and stand up strong again. After crying, please dry your tears and go. Reconcile with yourself, accept the bleakness in your life calmly, and put them all in yesterday. As long as you are not trapped in the past, the sun will always shine. The future is promising, don't give up.

 

If you don't do what most people do, they will criticize you; if you do what most people don't do, they will ridicule you. It doesn't mean you're wrong, it just makes them angry when you don't behave like them. As for why they were angry, maybe they wanted to appear right.

 

Life will reward brave people. Bravery does not mean being reckless, but daring to take the first step towards your goal. When everyone else is doing nothing in your own circle, you are the only one who dares to break through and dare to try. , then you will get what those who hesitate cannot get.

You must know that there are so many talented people in the world, and even they are trying hard to overtake themselves. It's not your talent that makes you stand out, it's your perseverance.

 

Choosing to be comfortable in your twenties is the greatest cruelty to yourself. The more lazy you are in the early stage of your life, the more likely you are to miss the people and things that make your heart move. Remember, comfort is a stumbling block until your abilities match your ideals. What can be solved with sweat, don't use tears. Start today and go the extra mile!

 

Laziness can destroy a person, diligence can inspire a person. Don't wait until it is too late to action. Be a person that even yourself envy.

 

You don't need to tell everyone how you got through those tough days. Most people see how high you are flying, and few people care whether you are tired or not. So, do what you need to do, walk the way you need to go, don't back down, don't waver, no matter how difficult it is, tell yourself to persevere, and don't let you be unworthy of your ambitions and let down everything you've experienced.

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What happens when you read often?

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What happens when you read often?

1. When a person is thinking, his eyes will become different.

There are many good-looking and beautiful boys and girls in life. When you look at his eyes, his eyes may appear very bright and radiant, but after a long time, it seems that something is missing.

When we communicate with people who read a lot of books, you will find the determined look in their eyes. We will unconsciously think that: This is a person with ideas.

There are also people who don't like to read but love to think and have their own point of view and that is inseparable from their experience.

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2. Emits the aura of calmness.

Outsiders see them and the intuitive feeling is quiet.

This should be one of the characteristics and that is to be able to concentrate. (It refers to being able to sit down to read, without conflicting with the daily activity.)

It is because they enjoy alone time, and even solitude. They can sit, read and write for hours. During these hours, It is only him and the book.

Reading also builds the emotional stability and compassion for life.

We should read something that resonates with us spiritually, makes us feel life, and allows us to look at ourselves through the life experiences of others.

That is, something that can make us think, impact our thinking, and form values.

That's what it means to read and think.

This is why everyone recommends famous books because what they write are profound propositions related to life and people.

 

3. It is easier to grasp the key points.

It can also be said to be able to see the essence of something. People, who read a lot, think a lot, continues to train their logical thinking through reading.

In this way, whether they are speaking or analyzing problems, they can have an overall view and looks at the big picture.

When others are still stuck on who is to blame, he already sort out his thoughts and think of solutions.

It's also comfortable to chat with them, because their logic is clear and easy to understand. Just like for people who dislike mathematics, when they manage to figure out and understand a big problem, they will be very happy and have a sense of accomplishment.

 

4. Can understand what other people say, and let others understand what he says.

Reading is one of the easiest and cheapest ways to gain knowledge, and then gradually understand the law of the occurrence and development of things, become more aware of human nature, and gain insight into world affairs.

There are people do not read much but are very wise. Note that I said wisdom not quantity of knowledge.

Some people know a lot, but only stay at the surface. Because he only store but do not digest knowledge. Some people do not like to read books, but they have extensive experience and they are equally wise.

The tough part is to digest what you have read and to think and apply practice in your own way.

Reading actually increases your experience.

The one who reads a lot will also put himself into someone else’s shoes. That is to stand on the other side's point of view and answer a question from the point of view so that the other side can understand. For example, when his peers asked him what he was doing, he would say he was doing new media. When he went back to his hometown, his aunt asked him what he was doing, and he would say: write advertisements for others to make money.

 

5. Not condescending and aggressive.

In fact, people who really read and think a lot will not look down on this or that.

Because the more books you read, the more you realize your own insignificance; the more you realize that people's thoughts are ever-changing, and it is impossible for everyone to be the same as you; the more you will understand that everyone has their own difficulties.

 

Reading is like drawing a circle. Inside the circle are the books you have read, and outside the circle are the books you have not read. The more you read, the bigger the circle, and the bigger the unknown part outside the circle. We should thrive to read as much as we can.

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Are you lost in life?

Are you lost in life?

When a person has no goal and direction, or experiences some failures, he will become more and more confused and demoralized!

There may be times when we have no goals, don’t know what we want, what we can do, or experience some setbacks, being questioned and distrusted by others, making ourselves confused and at a loss! When life is at its lowest point, don't be impatient, rush for success or give up yourself! The more difficult it is, the more you have to calm down, slow down, find out your own shortcomings and improves yourself! If you really don't know what to do, sit down and read. Reading not only allows you to learn more, but also allows you to calm down and face difficulties calmly and change your irritable mood!

Books are actually the best teachers for each of us, and the guiding light for us to move forward. Each of us has started reading since childhood, but very few people really understand it. Why? Because there are not many people who really study hard, only a few people change their destiny through reading, and most people feel that they are not suitable for reading, they are not interested, and they cannot learn it by themselves. This is just an excuse for most of us that’s all, or they gave up before they found their hobby. Of course, reading does not refer to the knowledge in books. When we step into the working world, each of us has to survive. In order to live, we have learned a lot about what we don’t like, what we don’t want, and what we don’t like. , what we hate has finally become our ability to survive! However, these are all forced to do it. Just imagine how many of us are really willing to pick up books and learn by ourselves, maybe very few. Just like when we go to school, how many people like it from the bottom of their hearts and have a clear goal to read, and more people just read for the sake of reading.

Each of us has different ideas, different goals, different hobbies, different positions, and the results of what we do are naturally different. When you are a factory worker, you just need to finish your work and get the money you deserve every month. When you are a farmer, you only need to plant the seeds on time and plant the crops well every year. When you're a boss think about buying more stuff every day to make more money. When you are a manager, you think about how to improve the work efficiency of employees and complete tasks on time every day. The same job, the same environment, some people are getting better and better, and some people are still doing it for a lifetime.

The most important thing for each of us is to understand ourselves first, do you want to live a life of misery, or do you want to make some achievements? Do you want to live a normal life or live a noble life like others! If you want to live poorly, then you don't need to waste these hours thinking about living a good life, and don't envy other people's lives. Live your life down-to-earth, and don't complain about the injustice. If you want to change yourself, you must put in practical actions, don’t be afraid of hardships and fatigue, the effort and the gain are always proportional! If you are thinking every day, but not taking action, it is better to live a normal life and waste so much time! Even if you have a small goal, as long as you take action, then you are halfway there. If you are just pretending, then you are just deceiving yourself and deceiving your life. 

Some people work steadily, but there is no substantial change, then you have to think carefully about whether your thinking is wrong, or your approach is wrong! Still not trying hard enough! Or force yourself to do something that you are not interested in at all! If you're in the wrong direction, you'll never reach your destination!​​​

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Work harder while you are younger to make your life easier later

There is a kind of happiness, that is to go home and eat

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Work harder when you are younger to make your life easier later

Learn to deal with crises early, and employers prefer to employ younger people nowadays. For example, after the age of thirty-five, it is difficult for people to find jobs, let alone those without skills.

Most people will not realize it and when they really reach that age, they realize that it is too late. Some people may have heard of it way before, but they feel that it has nothing to do with them. When that day comes, if you don’t have any experience with a stable job, you will need to accept jobs of lower pay. If you look at the employment websites, you will realize that many companies do not want to consider employing people over the age of 35.It is not because they are not skilled and unfamiliar with the business, but because they feel that they are getting older, they do not have the vitality, passion, or hard work of young people. With so many young people out of work now, how can it be their turn? Those over 40 years old will have more difficulty to find a job. They can only do things that young people are unwilling to do, such as security guards, doormen, sanitation workers, and coolies on and off the construction site. There's really nothing left to choose from.

When you are young, you should work harder and think about your future. When you are in your 30s or 40s, a person's burden is the heaviest. There are elders and kids to take care of. If the other half does not have a stable job, and the burden is all on you, if you have no job and no income at this time. Then you can imagine how tough your life will be.

When you are young, it is time to lay a good foundation for yourself and not waste a lot of time sleeping, playing, enjoying. Although you enjoy it when you are young, what follows is the real beginning of your misery. So we should learn as soon as possible, to work hard, to struggle. When you reach a certain age, you want to work hard and struggle, but you find that you have no time or opportunity to do that, because you have to earn money to support your family, you can live frugally, but how do you support your family? . We all make mistakes when we are young, but probably not many people really realize they are wrong. Some people say that we don't even know we made mistakes, so how can we correct and change ourselves?

The first thing to do is to learn to study, to read, and to improve one's own cognition. Now people's living standards have improved, and young people are not like people in their teens and twenties who have to take up family responsibilities when they start a family and start a business.

Today's people always feel that they are under a lot of pressure with heavy burden, but if you look at each generation, which generation is not under much pressure. Don't always use such reasons as an excuse , If you don't believe it, go home and chat with your parents, chat with your grandparents, and see how they lived at that time. If you don't cherish it now, don't work hard, the days of suffering and tiring are waiting for you later!

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Learn to stay awake at all time and make less detours in life

Learn to stay awake at all times and make less detours in life

Every single step counts in life!

Each of our lives is a live broadcast, with no replays, no pauses, and no way to start all over again. So we must learn to wake up early. Each of us is not a god, and we make mistakes. But we must keep ourselves awake and realize our mistakes as soon as possible.

A person's life is incomplete without making mistakes. So don't grieve over your mistakes, but get out of the wrong path and get back on the right track as soon as possible. It is difficult for many people to realize their mistakes. When the mistakes have a certain level of impact, they will wake up. A petty thief may feel that he will be fine if he steals something from someone else if he is not found out. Slowly, he will always take a fluke. When he is caught one day, he will realize that he is doing something wrong, when the greed gets out of control, he may never have the chance to look back! It's not that he don't know he has made a mistake, it's that his greed has taken over his mind.

As everyone makes mistakes in work, life, love, family and so on, we have to learn to find mistakes and get out of them as soon as possible.

Some people can realize their mistakes, but it is difficult to correct them. This is because they have not realized the seriousness of the problem. For example, if you usually smoke, you know that it is harmful to the body, but it is difficult to quit. But if it seriously threatens your life, most people will quit, and smoking will be negligible relative to physical health.

If a person is not serious at work, he will realize that he should have worked hard in his younger days when he has kids as well elders to take care of. As long as you can realize your own problems, and you are willing to change and correct your mistakes, you will have less detours in life.

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Poor People are more generous than the Rich?

Poor people are more generous than the rich?

We often heard that the richer the people are, the stingier they become, and the poorer people are more generous. In fact, it does not mean that rich people are really reluctant to spend money. They know that money is very hard to earn, and they will spend on the necessary but definitely not wasting it. The poor on the other hand like to save face, their hard earn money are used to pay for their meals with their friends, buying branded items for everything.

I came to know of an acquaintance, he is just an ordinary company employee getting a fixed salary every month, but when he saw other people buy branded clothes, watches, mobile phones, cars, etc., he also want to follow suit. A friend asked him, you don't have much salary a month, but your salary cannot match the standard of living right? He said with a wry smile, he borrowed from friends, relatives, credit cards, from whatever sources as long as he could borrow, and he was overwhelmed with just paying the interest every month. And soon enough, there was no source of income during the epidemic, and all the borrowers are rushing to repay the money. He sold almost everything he could, and finally sought help from his family members to repay the debt.

For the poor, the most excessive thing is having lots of time. Time passes so slowly during work, time is spent to play games, watch TV etc. All the time is wasted and nothing is achieved in the end.

Rich people feel that they don’t have enough time every day. They either try to make more money, or try to improve their abilities and make themselves better and better everyday. Even if there are many things that cannot be done during the epidemic, it is a pity that time is wasted in vain so they are either studying or researching how to carry out work more effectively. Learn to solve some challenging problems. After the epidemic, you will find that the gap between the poor and the rich is getting wider and wider. Because the rich are using this time to improve themselves, while the poor is spending time playing games, watching TV, and wasting time.

Most of the poor people like to sleep in late, and they sleep until late in the afternoon. I have seen some people sleep all day when they have nothing to do.  If you spend most of the day sleeping, how can you still have time for anything else.

Rich people are looking for time to study every day, and try to control their sleeping time to the minimum. Some people sleep only four or five hours a day. No matter how late they sleep, they will still work on time the next day, and still being energetic. People who are as good as others are working hard, and we have no reason not to.

Rich people eliminate the unimportant things in their lives. For example, they rarely waste time, they insist on getting up early every day, exercising, dealing with work, and recharging themselves for study. It is because they have bigger goals and more things to learn.

The poorer the people are, the more generous they are. Time, money, work and study can all be wasted, but what cannot be wasted is sleeping, eating, drinking and having fun. They think that's the most important thing. So it's getting poorer in the end!

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8 Sentences that make you strong

8 Sentences That Make You Strong

1. Always keep 30% mysterious

Absolute honesty to others is absolute harm to yourself.

​It is likened to the trailer for the movies, and when it is not well done, it becomes boring.

​As soon as you know someone, revealing yourself completely will make people disdain to get closer to you, because you have nothing much to understand.

​When talking with ordinary people, only reveal 30%, when talking with acquaintances, only 50%, when talking with family members, only 70%,

​When you have your own secrets, it gives people more desire to understand you.

2. Low-quality social interaction is not as good as high-quality solitude.

​​When children quarrel, they will always say, "I will never be friends with you again." Adults don't need to say it, they just don't keep in touch.

 

3. Never aim for things beyond your means

Beautiful women are pleasing to the eyes, and virtuous women are pleasing to the heart;

​​When you are not strong enough, you should be less greedy for women who are too beautiful

​Any person or event can bring you as much happiness as it will bring you the same amount of pain.

 

4. Others can laugh at themselves, but you cannot follow along.

​Communicate with people and know how to "report good news instead of bad news"

​When someone asks about our impression of others, if you can praise it, don’t just say it’s okay, and if you can say it’s okay, don’t belittle it.

​Same caring words, but if you word it differently, the meaning will be different.

Be careful 

Be careful on the road

Be careful of being hit by a car on the road

​The third sentence is the truth, but often people don’t like to hear the truth.

 

5. You don't have to stab people, but you must have thorns on your body.

Good people are rewarded, but nice people don't.

​I can treat you to dinner for 1,000, or drink 2,000 of wine, but you have to pay back the 100 you owe me. This is the rule.

​No matter what your relationship is, whether it involves money, you must make a clear distinction.

​​Economic ability is proportional to the right to speak at home

 

6. Don't be lazy

"Help me make a ppt?", "Send me one of this thing?" These are not desirable.

​One's results doesn't come out of thin air, it comes from time or money.

​People who are unwilling to come out after calling twice, don't make an appointment next time. The strong do not like to be in the company of the weak.

​Sometimes some people don't seem to care about you at all. Don't be complacent, but it's because you are not important at all.

 

7. When hesitating to eat or not, do not eat;

When hesitant to buy or not, do not buy;

When you are hesitant to do it, do it now!

​“Actions” always have to keep up with “ideas”

​If you want to do something, you must take action. Accidents may be one step faster than tomorrow. Some regrets are irreparable for life.

​If you want to go to a distant place, you have to find a way to feel it; what you want to do, you can do it even if you are not ready.

 

8. Society is not that complicated, what is complicated is the human heart

​No matter what the outside world is like, what can affect you is actually the few people around you.

​There is no ability to change the world; at least you can choose who to walk with.

3 secrets men must understand:

1. When you get richer and richer, someone will naturally like you.

2. When you don't take your feelings seriously, your pain is much less.

3. What hurts you is not the unfeeling of the other party, but the persistence of your fantasies. 

6 sentences to make you sober:

1. Stupid people do not have enough intelligence to know they are stupid. This is really a helpless thing.

​The speed at which you find yourself stupid = the speed at which you can make money in the future

2. When an era is over, but the people of that era is still alive. This is a cruel, but very common thing. ​Most people come from the past and live in modern times with the thoughts of ancient people. 

3. Don't always feel that others look down on you. In fact, you worry too much, and others can't see you at all. Having no money and always wanting to talk about dignity is the modern version of the emperor's new clothes.

4. Why don't others reason with you?

​First, he is much stronger than you, and it is enough to crush you directly.

Second, you are too stupid to understand the truth.

​Confidence is a double-edged sword. When you meet someone who is better than you, trusting him is more effective than trusting yourself.

5. Everyone is not born equal, you work very hard, and the final destination may not be as good as the starting line of others.

The world above the clouds cannot be seen by the naked eye, nor the darkness hidden under the sun. The cheapest thing in this world is that you are poor and you always want to be a good person.

6. Life is like this. There are always countless people watching you live, but there are always very few people who help you.

Don't try to make real friends when you're not strong enough.

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